So, I wasn't sure what to do before going to bed last night; should I sleep with him in the same bed or should I sleep in a separate bed? Well, I chose to sleep in the same bed although I was still really upset about what happened last night, but I thought I would just feed the fire if I didn't sleep in the bed with him. So I did, puffing and huffing, crawling into the bed. Funny thing is I fell asleep really fast! I thought I would toss and turn forever, but it didn't take long for me to the ZZZ time.
When I woke up, I could still see that my husband was upset from last night. Knowing that he's still upset, of course I didn't talk to him. I told him good morning, but that was it and he left for work.... It sucks. It wasn't my fault that we fought. It just that we are going through the phase of whatever we say it rubs each other in the wrong way. Don't you go through the same thing sometimes????? Then after awhile of non-stop bickering, the wall between us would shift and we are fine again. I don't get it. But right now, our relationship sucks and I don't like it...
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I'm so sorry to hear that you are having problems with your husband.. I can't really be a good adviser about relationships, but I can say that everyone goes through that sometimes I guess, the most important thing is to keep holding on and not giving up easily. It never should be about who started or caused the fights, there is always an indicator of course, but it shouldn't be personal, the most important thing is to get through that. You guys should fight for eachother. Isn't marriage about that anyway? I hope this helps in some way.. :) And I really hope you can work things out. GOOD LUCK!
Hey Alev! Thanks so much - Yes, it's tough and yes I'm sorry, too, but like you said, we're holding on and hanging in there, hopefully we can just ride through it. Keep checking me up if you dont mind, I'll keep posting the story about me and hubby. xx, M~
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