Sunday, May 17, 2009

Do You Like It Young?

Mario Testino portrait of Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher Pictures, Images and Photos
Ashton Kutcher & Demi Moore Pictures, Images and Photos
Another Hollywood Couple whose wife is a lot older than husband.

The news at my salon this week is that my co-worker (another receptionist) C's mom got married. It's nice to know that C's mom found a new love at the age of 54. Everybody was so happy for C's mom and excited for C. But there is a little twist to the love story. C's stepdad is 37. Yes, you read me right. C's mom is 54 and her new husband is 37. 37!!! The guy is 17 years younger than C's mom. It's been funny experience for me to see all our client who are often older ladies go Goo Goo Gaa Gaa over C's mom's marriage. I bet they are jealous.

When C told me about her mom getting married, she was honestly happy for her mom. She said as long as the man treats her mom right and makes her happy, it doesn't bother her that her mom is marrying such a younger man. C said that her mom looks younger than her age and mom's new husband looks older than 37, so it evens out... Okay.... She often jokes, "I call him Daddy just to tease him." C is 27, so she could never call him Daddy for real.

I am a firm believer of love coquers everything. As long as you love one another, nothing matters. It's great that C's mom got it going and went for it. A lot of people including myself would hesitate marrying a guy who is 17 younger than her age. Wouldn't you??

Then, I thought about a post I did a while back. It's about these high school kids thought that I was hot. I am 35 and they are like 16 - 17.. Now I know I could never be with anyone who is so young (and oh, I'm already married, so I don't qualify for marrying another man, do I?), but it's interesting that some men do attracted to older lady. If you want to know what happened, read this post.

What about you beautiful? Would you like young boy or older man? If there is any male reader, would you like to date older woman? Also, what is the age limit for the guy you date? Mine would be: I could probably date 9 years senior or 8 years younger... My husband is 8 years older than me and thank God he looks young and acts young.

Hope you're having a great Sunday!!!


Laura said...

My husband is 2 years younger than me...not that it is a huge difference or anything, but people make jokes about it. I really think it has to do with where you are in life and how mature/immature each person is.

freeTEYme said...

I have no preference although J is 3 years older than I am. An ex was 4 years younger than I was yet he was more mature than I was at that time.

LadyStyx said...

My first was about 6 yrs older...the second is 9 months younger and behaves better than the first. Not much of a difference in age this time, I know, but it's just enough to make people look twice when they see the ages written on any paperwork. Thankfully, I look young for my age...and hubby looks older. Of the two of us, Im the one that's most likely to get carded places.

Bayjb said...

I wouldn't mind dating someone older but I definitely have an "age" in my head that I would be comfortable with. If it gets too close to my dad's age or generation, I get freaked out.

Elizabeth Marie said...

First of all I love that Testino book, I'm looking at it on my coffee table right now.

And I just want a man who treats me right! UGH Maki! help! haha.

How are you doll? I miss you! XO

Dionne said...

I always told myself I would never go for a younger guy, I think it's because I wanted a man that was mature, and respectful, and level-headed. But I guess if the guy is younger, it's more than ok, so long as he bears those qualities. Brian is 3 months younger than me, does that count? LoL.

Nicole Marie said...

well not that i've had that much experience but personally i like my guys to be at least a year older than me. guys mature much slower than girls and i just dont think i could someone who is less immature

Riff Dog said...

I've "dated" women both younger and older. I don't really have any numerical age limits, but I do have "maturity" limits in both directions. I can't deal with a young airhead or an old fudyy-duddy.

Mama Kat said...

Give me an older man ANY day of the week. Pat is 11 years older than me and I wouldn't change a thing. I like feeling like the younger vixen. ;)

lbluca77 said...

At least he isn't like 21. 37 is not that bad. Younger men always seem to like me so this post is really about my future.

I have never dated an older man. By older not even a few months older. They are always at least a few months younger. At least. But hey if George Clooney comes a knockin I would be down.

The Puma said...

I am considering a physical relationship with a 17yo boy. I am 28. I have always dated older men, but this guy gets my blood racing like no man ever has before. Is it wrong? He has 4 months to go before he is 18, but I don't think I can hold out. My mom's husband is 14 years her junior, so maybe it runs in the family...

Maki said...

Laura: I agree, it's totally up to where you are in life and the maturity of each individual. Two years is nothing!

feeTEYme: 3 years older sounds perfect age difference...

LadyStyx: LOL. Loving the part, "behaves better than the first.." - I guess it's really depends on the maturity of each person. I mean, my husband is 43, but act like he's still 28. I don't know if it's good thing or bad thing?

Bayjb: I used to attracted to only older men. I've dated two younger guys in my life, but they were mature than I was I think. I wouldn't want to date a guy who is 12 years older than me..

Elizabeth: I know you can do it, babe!!! I miss you too!

Dionne: 3 years younger.. Hmmm, let me think. Yes, that counts too! LOL. Nah... I think you both are very mature and perfect for each other! :)

Nicole: You like it older too. I think when I was in my 20's, only guys that I was attracted to was older than me..

Riff Dog: I can't stand a younger airhead or an old fudyy-duddy either!

Kat: Wooo Hooo - you're one hot young vixen!!! You and Pat are so charming together :)

LBLuca: Seriously, you are younger guys magnet!!! Sweet!!! I would love to see you going for an older man..

The Puma: Wow!!! If he turns 18 - then go for it!!! Yes, maybe it runs in your family. What I realize is that as long as you are happy, that's what matters.. Good luck! xo

Kristin said...

I husband is a couple years older but I have to say, given the chance and a single status....I would tear into Zac Efron!

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